At the end of January I wrote about my mom going into Memory Care. Well, “funny”story.
A few weeks ago I got a call from the director of her community. She said she had visited my mom and talked with her at some length. Then she dropped the flower bomb, meaning the good news! “Your mom doesn’t belong in Memory Care.”
Turns out I was right about the situation with her. I had told the independent living staff that I agreed she had hallucinations and couldn’t remember times and dates, but that she knew all of the family still, knew everything about us, and the same with friends.
The director noticed the same thing, saying, “She knows everyone’s name.”
So they moved her into the regular assisted living, where she can eat meals with friends and go out of the building whenever she pleases. She’s happy because she has the care she needs (reminding her about appointments, for instance, and three meals a day), but has some freedom. She didn’t fit in Memory Care. It’s wonderful to fit in, especially when you have a lot of aging issues.
About the hallucinations. Apparently they stopped once she moved out of independent living. Nobody knows why, but I suspect she was lonely and scared living by herself in an isolated area of the building and maybe this triggered them.
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