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by Luanne | September 20, 2026 · 6:00 am

The Midnight Farm and Let Evening Come

When my son was young, I read him a picture book over and over again. It was called The Midnight Farm, written by Reeve Lindbergh and illustrated by Susan Jeffers.

I still have the copy, sans the dust jacket, and it’s almost time to give it to Hudson.

The book is a rhyming poem with a strong repetition element. These lines are a sample of the book which is also a counting or 1-2-3 book.

Here is the dark of the chair in the hall

Where one old dog curls up in a ball,

Breathing each breath with a rise and a fall

In the dark of the chair in the hall.

***

Here is the dark by the big wood stove

Where two white cats have a leftover glove

And a birthday card that was signed with love

In the dark by the big wood stove.

I think I loved this book at least as much as my son did. It won the Redbook Award for 1987, but wasn’t a Caldecott winner or honor book, which I find sad. This was Lindbergh’s first children’s book. I feel the book deserved to be honored by the Caldecott committee, but it makes me sad also because:

In 1985, Lindbergh (Charles Lindbergh’s daughter–her brother was kidnapped and died years before she was born) lost her baby boy to a seizure. The day he died, she began to write this book as a lullaby to him. Are you tearing up yet? It made me emotional to learn this.

Now I find this also very interesting. Jane Kenyon, esteemed American poet, wrote a poem called “Let Evening Come.” It was published as the title poem in her 1990 collection. These two poems remind me of each other. They sound so similar with the emphasis on the repetition. But, more importantly, they are about the same thing.

Both poems seems to be about not being afraid of the dark, of nightfall, that we are part of a natural cycle, of nature. But with the adult poem by Kenyan readers read the theme as not to be afraid of death.

Well, certainly The Midnight Farm is about not being afraid of death, although it’s also about not being afraid of the dark for children. Perhaps it’s one of those books for children on one level and adults on another.

I read “Let Evening Come” here:

Doesn’t being afraid of death mean different things to different people?

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by Luanne | October 21, 2019 · 5:20 am

Goodbye to My Uncle

Last Wednesday my Uncle Frank passed away. A month or so before, he had suddenly found it difficult to walk, so he asked a neighbor to take him to the ER. Before that moment, he seemed in remarkably good physical and mental health for someone 90 years old. Although they didn’t know what was wrong, they admitted my uncle to the hospital where he fluctuated between lucidity and not. They had him on a strong dose of morphine because the pain in his back and legs was so bad.

Then they sent him to a nearby nursing home where he spent his days slumped uncomfortably in a wheelchair. That is the point where my cousin, Frank’s only living child, called me.

For a few weeks, Frank went back and forth between the hospital and the nursing home, but he was never given a diagnosis. Even without the morphine, he began to lose his lucidity. It became impossible to talk to him on the phone because he didn’t know what to do with a telephone and his words were slurred.

Although it’s a long drive, my mother and brother in Kalamazoo were able to drive to Arkansas to see him. They reported that after their initial visit he no longer recognized anyone, so I decided there was no point in flying there to visit. My brother and cousin thought he might have a couple of weeks “left,” but still nobody knew what was wrong with him. The day after the nursing home decided to get him an appointment with a blood doctor, he passed away. My cousin called me from Uncle Frank’s bedside.

We still don’t know what was wrong with him. I think the nursing home did the best they could as they are not doctors, but I have to wonder what went on at that hospital. I have no legal rights in the matter, though, so there it lies.

I am left with the memories. My father and Uncle Frank were, like many twins, very very close. Frank also had a long and happy marriage with my Aunt Dolly who passed away from leukemia less than a year and a half ago. He would have been 91 the day after Christmas, the birthday he shared with his twin brother, my father. With Frank gone, since I am the oldest of the cousins, I am now the oldest person descended from my grandmother.

The first time the gardener and I spoke with Uncle Frank after he was admitted to the nursing home, the gardener made a joke to Uncle Frank about “his scotch.” Uncle Frank enjoyed scotch and soda, and he loved to cook and to eat. He once owned a steakhouse in Chicago, although most of his career was spent as a car salesman. He was very social and had a great many friends, many of them decades younger than himself. The gardener asked what he was drinking at the nursing home. In a very cryptic comment, Frank said, “Whatever Dolly had.” This comment chilled me.

After all, Frank’s white blood count was up, and his worst symptoms were the pain from his back and the inability to walk. These are all symptoms of leukemia.

I’ve written on this blog about visiting Uncle Frank after Aunt Dolly passed away–and also attached a link about the time he escaped death by a mass murderer. You can find both links here: Links to Uncle Frank articles

I could have selected a lot of photos for this blog post, especially ones where Frank is with my father and with Dolly. Or even one of myself with my beloved uncle. Instead, I chose a photo of him in his U.S. Navy sailor uniform (he served right after WWII) and a Christmas photo from Grandma’s home in 1967. On his lap is my cousin Leah (age 7) who passed away 16 years ago.

Rest in peace, Uncle Frank, Aunt Dolly, and Leah.